My friends often ask me about where to find spanking partners. There is actually a rather clever little method.
You might think you would need to join a fetish dating site to find like-minded lovers. Although this is not strictly wrong, there is a far better route to take. You see, the trouble with fetish dating services is they charge a lot of money – in my experience, anyway. They also tend to have very few members, which can be a real problem if, like me, you live outside of a major town or city.
The solution – with a twist, though – is a general dating community; one with a big list of members.
What you need to do is join a well-known dating service that has several million members. There are at least ten sites like this available to us. Once you have created your profile – just like you would make a Facebook or myself profile – you can do a search – and this is where to find spanking partners very easily.
The benefit of choose a big general dating community, compared to a niche spanking personals site, is you get access to millions of people, you can usually join without spending any money, and you can put in clever searches to find people with a spanking fetish.
So when you do your search for local people, simply add the criteria that you only want to see results of people who like spanking. Some dating services will actually have a box you can tick of people who like this fetish; others will have a keyword field where you can type in words that are found on profiles, giving you a list of local people who have written that word or phrase.
In this way you will almost always get yourself a big list of local people who share your love to spank or to get spanked.